A great sex life — and being the woman of his dreams — starts well before you enter the bedroom. The mindsets you bring to sex determine not just how much your man enjoys sex with you, but more importantly — how he feels about sex with you. So for his sake, and yours, here are 6 bedroom mindsets men love to find in a woman. Men care about pleasing you — a lot. In fact, it will have the opposite effect. Just like you, men need to be relaxed to enjoy themselves. Why is it wrong to say so?
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My wife agreed to us having sex last Friday night but I still booked to see a girl on the Saturday. I am 35 and have always had a high sex drive. My wife is 33 but not very interested in sex.
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