Life is suddenly wonderful, and you catch yourself smiling, humming, and happy all the time. Having said that, I believe strongly that it takes a special individual who can remain active in the church and have a non-traditional marriage. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points. Wow i am in the exact same position. Typical American girls have the government to make them feel secure. I don't think anyone here intended a dismissal of the girl as a human being by stating such.
We agree on honesty and kindness, it doesn't matter what inspires us to pursue that. Also, we haven't practiced polygamy for over years. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next. Interreligious marriages are not a new thing.
What about the folks at church. All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. He was devastatedcalled me every night crying telling me to please go back. I'm a Mormon girl in love with an amazing non-Mormon man. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse.